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Comment on How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work by Elaine

Elaine — Sun, 15 Apr 2012 20:59:09 +0000

hi, i need help, ive ben seeing a guy for about a month now…hes told me he loves me and i told him i love him…but now hes having to go work away down south monday to friday..im a bit panicked as ive never had to do this and the relationship is so new…will this be a good thing? im really worried and sad x

Comment on How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work by Rachelle

Rachelle — Sat, 14 Apr 2012 16:03:06 +0000

I’ve been in long distance relationship for over 10 months now.. We been through rough road.. We fight sometimes everyday and its always my jealous attitude and communication issues. There are times that i think that im only wasting my time? thinking, is this worth a shot? Will he eventually cheat on me? He had cheated on me first 2 months of relationship and admitted to me eventually.. and after that, our relationship turned even more deeper and serious, its been 10 months, And he only see me on picture.. well 1 time on cam and do sent him some videos of me… And i do see him quite sometimes on webcam. We do phone sex, yes! I need and we need to pleasure each other for our needs so that we wont find those needs in other people and ended up cheating… I have thought of giving up soo many times.. I left my career and picked him. totally giving my whole life right now not knowing if it will even work… But, how would i know if i wont give it a shot?? And every time im close to giving up.. I always tell my self… Can i leave a day without my daily routine? which is hear him everyday… And i cant… I love him dearly.. And I am taking this challenge and gambling my whole life wishing this long distance relationship will work and we be forever together and it will be wothit! .

Comment on How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work by mattie

mattie — Tue, 10 Apr 2012 03:17:42 +0000

i love my toby kinz its oly been a few weeks and im not da ldr type i cant handle it fir very ling cause i miss huggin ane bein closr to em i mean we net in 4th grade and now were graduatin colledge i cant bear to be with out him doso wat do i do

Comment on How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work by Melissa

Melissa — Mon, 09 Apr 2012 01:36:02 +0000

I’ve been in a long distance relationship for like 2 years now. We met online and talked for about a year. Then finally I gave him my number and we started texting each other from the min we woke up to the min we fell asleep. He lives in Arizona and I live in Illionis, and we haven’t met face-to-face yet, sadly. But we are still determined to meet each other, and since he is going into college this summer and I’m just going into high school, it’s been a bit hard. But I love him and he loves me just as much and we are gonna make it work

Comment on How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work by Ben

Ben — Sat, 07 Apr 2012 03:39:32 +0000

Wasn’t there supposed to be advice on how to make long distance relationships work somewhere in that article?

Comment on How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work by Rita

Rita — Fri, 06 Apr 2012 23:43:59 +0000

I’m in a long distance relationship, and it will be 5 months later this April We met online about 3 years ago and we’ve been friends ever since, but he was in another relationship at the time for the first couple years we knew each other. I have always felt a weird connection between the two of us, but I didn’t do anything about it because he was in another relationship (ironically another LDR one.)
They broke up last summer, and we started dating about 5 months ago. I met him for the very first time face to face in February when I went to Disneyland in California around where he lives. He went to Disneyland the same day as I. We met and it was absolutely amazing. The best day I’ve ever had. We shared a beautiful first kiss and many more that day, and we clicked instantly. I was so relieved, it was amazing and everyday I try to relive that day. That made us so much closer and now we feel like anything is possible.

There have been frustrating moments in the relationship; trust issues, missing each other, being bored with the relationship, etc. but that’s just what comes with all LDR’s and I’ve realized that I need to accept that if I want to be with my boyfriend. I can see me falling in love with him one day, and I don’t want to ruin something like this just because I am impatient and frustrated with the miles between us. One day we will be together and that day will be SO worth all the pain and tears.

So to all you LDRs, do NOT give up. It will be very worth it one day when you get to be in your lover’s arms forever. Keep working at it, it may not always be easy, but nothing good ever comes easy. Remember that.

Comment on How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work by john

john — Fri, 06 Apr 2012 00:44:46 +0000

Its hard she hasn’t even moved yet we been together for over 2 years, she keeps crying every time she thinks about her ( she is in her mind 20s and got the internship she needs to complet her resediency) I got accepted to a school in cail and my program is 3 years. I don’t know what to expect it seems like 2 years is forever for me she will be across the country for a long time I feel as tho if we can over come this we can conquer life together any thoughts?

Comment on How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work by joe

joe — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 04:41:31 +0000

I’ve been in a long distance relationship for almost an entire year now. My girlfriend and I started dating when she was a senior in college while I was a junior. 2 months after we started dating I moved in with her and maybe 5 months after that she graduated which meant she went back home and I went back home. Problem: We live 6 hours away from each other. Other problem: I haven’t graduated yet.

We made plans to move in after my graduation but it turns out I’ll be graduating a semester later than expected. It is hard to be happy without each other. It is frustrating when we make plans to meet up and they fall apart for one reason or another. We used to see each other every 2 weeks but the last time I saw her was almost a month ago now. Currently we live 2.5 hours away since I’m in school now. I would love to live with her over the summer but I can’t live with her and her dad and she can’t leave her area because of her current job which she needs to pay off student loans.

I am in love with my girlfriend and I really want this to work out. I have never had a better time in my life than when I was living with her during her senior year. I am (was) upset that we didn’t just try to live together after she graduated but I can understand why she wouldn’t want to sacrifice her safety at home just to live with me. I haven’t slept with anyone but her since we started dating and I’m sure she’s done the same because we have a good degree of trust within each other. When we do see each other it’s blissful and wonderful and there’s nobody I know who can make me happier.

We struggle through frustration but we are hopeful and expectant of each other. We expect each other to be there for each other while we are hopeful for our expectations about the future. After I graduate in december I would like to live with her. I know we can last through to december and I know it will be worth it if we do but I’m just scared.

I’m scared that we’re wasting our time being exclusive if we end up breaking up and I’m scared that not only her feelings will be hurt but mine will be hurt as well. I’m scared that nothing we can do will make it work although we try so hard to do just that. I’m scared that I’m not doing enough and I’m scared that I can’t ever do enough.

But through all my fright I manage to have confidence not only in her but also in myself and in our relationship. I don’t think I’ll have to eat my words. I know she’ll be there for me when I’m upset and I would be there for her too, it just sucks that being there doesn’t actually mean being physically there, it means something else. I hate disappointing her but sometimes it is hard to avoid, all I know is we are working at it and we are trying to make it work. I’m sad to say it but she does more for me than I do for her. She sends me things when I’m feeling blue, she always buys me things I like and she always comes to visit me and she pays for me when we go out. I feel so badly that I can’t do for her all the things she does for me because I really do love her and I really do want her to know that I love her. She deserves a person who can do all these things and more but I haven’t been able to reciprocate. It’s hard for me to even be able to see her on her birthday and it makes me so upset…

We’ll be 1 year LDRS in June after a 7 month spree of basically spending every moment together. It was such a huge difference not having anyone in bed when I would get home, but I guess I’ve gotten used to it. I would much rather go home to her waiting for me or her come home to me waiting but sometimes things don’t work out the way you want.

I just know that if and when we do get back to living with each other it will be exponentially easier and so much stress would be lifted from each of our backs. I just want to graduate and spend the rest of my life with her and be happy, no matter what I do. It’s hard to find a lot of things to make me happy when I constantly am saddened by her absence…But I do manage to find happiness. This is all I can do, that and know that I do have someone who also has me.

Comment on How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work by anshika

anshika — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 18:02:36 +0000

hi my husband is merchat navy officer and he goes on ship for 6 months and stay at home for 6 months, its really very difficult to stay without him for 6 months but for me.. time is not worthed because evrytime when we see eachother after a half year we remains very happy n full of our true love, everything gets renew in 6 months and we go for a new honeymoon everytime, we celebrate our first night all over again and believe me that moment becomes the most amazing and desirable moment of our life… we are living happily ever after

Comment on How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work by NenaBear

NenaBear — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 17:42:25 +0000

I have known my soldier for 8 years. He was my best friend growing up, and everytime we tried to get together something always went wrong. In January I up and moved to Arizona with his family, he was on leave at the time, and it just happened. Three days later he was on a plane flying 900 miles away. It’s so hard at times not having him here, but I’ve wanted this for 8 years I refuse to give up because he’s not here physically. 239 more days, God please make them fly. Stay strong Ladies and Gents… I’m so sure it’s possible to keep them going. <3